Hi kamrat1,
Judging my your description, you are resending the exact same parameters that second time, right ?
There is an issue here describing that exact scenario, and the issue is closed as a "Won't fix", and a workaround is provided. If you do change those query parameters, so they are not exactly the same in your next call, you should get the Load event fired that second time too.
To make sure the parameters are different for every call, you could add a dummy counter parameter that you would increase by 1 for every call you make. That way you have unique query parameters combination every single time.
Hope this helps.
P.S. Regarding parameters in VWG in general, you might find some more information on this Wiki page here.
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